Last night we had fun recreating a pose that my parents put me in back when I was less than one month old.  Fast-forward 32 years and Alex has been subjected to the same treatment.  Same Raggedy-Andy doll, but not the same plaid couch!


 

The day after Alex was admitted to the hospital for jaundice, he was released from the phototherapy around 11am.  After finding out that his bilirubin level had decreased to 12.6 overnight, the doctors felt confident that we were over the hump with that threat and they let us leave.  We were home by 1:30 that afternoon.  The next morning, we were to report to the pediatrician who was upset that we were released before it was proven that Alex was gaining weight. 



Well, just as we thought Alex was in the clear as far as his bilirubin level goes, his level spiked back up to 19 today.  Since the level for treatment is 18 and he lost an ounce since Monday (though Andy and I aren't convinced that it was actually an ounce and if it was, is that really that significant?), our pediatrician decided to admit him to Dayton Children's for phototherapy.    We arrived here around 3pm and had to wait for a room.  When we did get a room, it was a tiny room shared with another girl who was going home today after a week's stay for a kidney infection.  Andy and the girls stayed with Alex and me until about 4:30.  I took Alex down to radiology for a head ultrasound (who has ever heard of such a thing?).  He has been shaking a lot since his birth and even before and I've mentioned it to the doctor.  To be safe, she wanted to investigate further to make sure nothing is wrong.  Eventually, we were given a private room which beats the pants off of that tiny closet-like room we were in before. 



Today was our second full day at home as a family of five.  Today was definitely a much better day all around than last yesterday.  Both Deanna and I were more rested.  At least today I didn't feel under a cloud as much as I have for most of the past days.  I still don't know how Deanna does it - as she has gotten less rest than I have because of the whole breast feeding thing!  I try to do whatever I can do help, but often times in the night he wants something I cannot give him.  I still try to get up and prtend that I can help - even though there is often little I can do. It is frustrating at times to watch the first few days of awkwardness and struggles that go with breastfeeding a newborn.  But things seem to be getting better.  With Charlotte those struggles continued for seven weeks so hopefully it doesn't go on anywhere near that long.


We are so proud to introduce you to the newest addition to our family...

Alexander Andrew Murphy


Born     :  February 4th, 2009 - 5:01 PM

Weight :  8 pounds 2 ounces

Length :  21"

We still can't believe that we are parents once again - let alone of a boy.  We have a lot to learn!  Sarah and Charlotte both were very thrilled!  Unfortunately, the girls (and all of our guests that were here in the hospital at the time of the birth) could not spend much time with little Alex yet.  As part of standard hospital procedure for pre-term babies, they keep him under close observation and don't release him from the special care unit until they get enough tests and doctor approvals to release him to his family.  We can visit him at anytime - he is just down the hall.  Deanna had a long dry spell without him - as she was recovering from delivery.  Charlotte was adament about holding little Alex.  We let Sarah hold him while sitting on the hospital bed.  Char kept trying to get Sarah to be done with her turn so she could get her crack.  She demanded "I HAVE WAITED FOR HOURS!!"  It sounds more like something you would hear an adult utter while waiting in line on black friday than a three year old!  But yeah, she has a point - our family has waited for this moment for quite some time.  Deanna was overcome with emotion following the birth.  We both cannot believe this was another child that God has entrusted to us.  It was powerful to witness her dream finally coming true and to be apart of that.  Alex didn't start nursing until 9pm or so.  He did great so far.   They did put a tube down into his stomach to get some glucose in him - as his level was pretty low.  I told the nurses that if at all possible, we did not want them to feed him using a bottle.  They did that with Charlotte in the hospital for hours after she was born and took over a month to recover.  So the option was a tube or a bottle.  He was not bothered by the tube at all - and given how well he nursed, I know we did the right thing.  Alex did get released from the special care nursery around midnight.  So now he is free to come to our room and not constrained to this special area.  We were excited to hear that news. 

Deanna's aunt, Brenda stayed overnight Tuesday night and watched the girls all day Wed until she took them to the hospital.  They got there at a perfect time, they were only here maybe an hour before the birth.  Anything more than that could have been dangerous, esp with no naps!   Fortunately, they had friends to hang out with in the lobby.  Andy's parents are staying with the girls tonight and tomorrow.  They will have their work cut out for them - as both girls have to be driven to and from school tomorrow.  I know they can handle it. 

It is very nice to have wireless access in the hospital and be able to communicate this exciting time with all of you.  I understand that some of you got an error while trying to visit the page shortly after we sent the massive email list out.  I guess I take that as a compliement that so many of you cared that it caused there to not be enough connections to the database available!  It appears to be stable now - but I guess Alex already has quite a following.  If you haven't done so already, please leave us a comment.  We love hearing from you!  I will post all of the pictures tomorrow and anything else I have the energy to do.

Thanks for caring and for your concern and friendship.  Our new family of 5 appreciates it all! 


Love,  Andy / Deanna / Sarah / Charlotte / Alex


 


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I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS!!! I CAN NOT WAIT TO SEE HIM!!!!

From : JOHN Kost
Posted : 7/12/2009 5:17:14 PM


I AM SO EXCITED!!! I CANT WAIT TO SEE HIM AND YOU GUYS!!!! HE IS SOOOO ADORABLE!!! TELL EVERYONE I SAID HELLO! I LOVE YOU GUYS SUPER-DUPER MUCH! XOXOXOXOXO

From : JULIA
Posted : 3/8/2009 7:19:19 PM


Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm thrilled for you and your family! Finally a boy! He's gorgeous! Hope everyone is doing well now and I hope to come see him soon! Call if I can help out in any way! Miss ya!

From : Sherry Isenbarger
Posted : 2/20/2009 12:43:28 PM


Congratulations! A little Murphy boy born to "hang out" with the newest Coughlin boy ~ just like their Dads did years ago!

From : Bill and Ann Coughlin
Posted : 2/15/2009 9:48:52 PM


Congratulations! We're so happy for you. What a wonderful blessing you were blessed with again! ENJOY!!!

From : Mary Parker and Joan Ooten
Posted : 2/8/2009 5:28:01 PM


Welcome to the family, Alex! I can hardly wait to meet you in person! You are so BLESSED to have such a WONDERFUL family! Love, Terri Chadowski

From : Terri chadowski
Posted : 2/8/2009 9:53:14 AM


Andy, Deanna, Sarah, Char, Little Alex is such a beautiful baby boy and bring much joy to your family. He looks so healthy and handsome...it's hard to believe he was pre-term. Our congratulations to all of you.

From : Kevin & Ellen Ahlfeld
Posted : 2/8/2009 12:28:18 AM


What wonderful news!! He is just precious.and very handsome...wonderful features and a great hairline!! We are so happy for all of you. Love the picture of him as "the thinker" or is it a picture of him flexing his muscle!

From : Bruce and Arlene
Posted : 2/7/2009 10:20:49 PM


Congratulations on your newest addition! God Bless to all !

From : The Dan Kustra family
Posted : 2/6/2009 9:35:22 PM


Congratulations! Your blessing is here! He's awesome! BTW, from one mother of boys to another, watch for fountains when you change the diaper! They're quick! LOL! Really, I'm so happy for you guys! Enjoy him!

From : Elise Anne Brittain
Posted : 2/6/2009 9:28:52 PM


Congrats Murphy Family!!! You have 2 proud big sisters on your hands. :) Snuggle that big boy when the girls let you have a turn ;)

From : Jenny&Kaylee TBC
Posted : 2/6/2009 11:52:48 AM


We are so happy for you guys! Congratulations he is adorable! If there is anything you need, don't hesitate to ask.

From : Steve, Jeannie, Drew, Kyle and Alex Anderson
Posted : 2/6/2009 7:25:03 AM


whoa! Over 8 pounds and came early? You all better start an envelope for Alex's food bill. He is very cute and we are so happy for you.

From : Kathy and Eric Rosenberg
Posted : 2/6/2009 6:49:11 AM


Yeah! A baby boy! How exciting! Boys are so much fun! Hope you are doing well!

From : Kate Mary
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:02:41 PM


Congratulations on your beautiful son. What a blessing our children are. I am glad that everyone is doing ok. Congratulations!

From : Amy, Greg, Ian, Maeghan, Brayden, Maura & Elena Brooks
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:47:57 PM


congrats on your baby boy!

From : Mandy Burson (Capstick)
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:10:05 PM


Yeah a boy! I'm so excited for you guys! Deanna, you have been in my prayers, I really had no idea when you were due, I was so surprised when Kevin told me yesterday you were being induced What a beautiful family! The pictures certainly make you guys

From : Megan Holtz
Posted : 2/5/2009 6:24:53 PM


Congratulations on the birth of Alex! It's great to see another Cleveland Brown fan come into the world!! Alex shares his birthday with our little Matthew! Congrats again and we will talk to you soon!

From : John & Bev Idzakovich and Family
Posted : 2/5/2009 6:14:19 PM


Dearest Deanna and family. I am so pleased to finally meet your little man!! Can't wait to catch up with the latest updates on TBC. Take it easy and rest up hon. Huge hugs from England xxx

From : Tracey (Tracey and Neil)
Posted : 2/5/2009 5:47:51 PM


Oh Happy Day! Yeah for boys! A new member of the Murphy all drum band! Your sisters are taking a nap right now. When you come home the fun will begin. We think Alex will be an early talker with all the girl chatter around here! Sarah and Char are ex

From : Fran, Tim & Dave Murphy
Posted : 2/5/2009 3:44:05 PM


Wonderful News! Alex looks nice and healthy to me! I'm sure the girls will be a huge help to you. Andy, I'm glad you will have some more testasterone in the house!

From : James, Regina, Joey, Emily and John Dillon
Posted : 2/5/2009 1:48:28 PM


He is BEAUTIFUL!!!! Congratulations!!

From : Corinne~Mommy2KNIH
Posted : 2/5/2009 1:41:43 PM


How Awesome!! God is good!! A healthy, beautiful baby boy to round out the Murphy Family. I can't wait to meet him!! Congratulations!!

From : Kathy
Posted : 2/5/2009 12:43:41 PM


Nice Work!!! Glad mommy and baby BOY are doing well! We can't wait to meet him!

From : Love, The Wasoskis
Posted : 2/5/2009 12:09:13 PM


Congratulations! I am so excited for you! What a beautiful addition to your family! I can't wait to meet him. I am so glad everything went well and I hope to see you all soon!

From : Robin
Posted : 2/5/2009 11:21:25 AM


I am so happy for all of you! He's beautiful!

From : Johanna
Posted : 2/5/2009 10:52:31 AM


A baby boy! How exciting! We can't wait to meet him. We are so happy for you and can't wait to join the family of 5 club. God is good and baby Alex proves his handy work! We love you all!

From : Tim, Rebekah, Cason and Maura Yount
Posted : 2/5/2009 10:33:50 AM


We are SO, SO, SO happy to hear baby Alex is here safe and sound :) He is beautiful, you all look so happy and I'm thrilled to hear your story! Congrats!!!!!

From : Kelli
Posted : 2/5/2009 10:30:52 AM


Congratulations!!! So happy for you guys!!!!!

From : Spiro
Posted : 2/5/2009 10:00:44 AM


Congratulations! I wish you all the best and Deanna a quick recovery. He is quite handsome and it looks like he's gonna have two of the best big sisters!

From : Sonya Jo Rice
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:58:41 AM


Congrats Murphys! He's so cute! Love, the Hublers

From : Tom, Andrea, Michael, Katie, and Allie Hubler
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:51:11 AM


He's a big guy! Congratulations!

From : Carrie Smith
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:48:16 AM


Congratulations. We are thrilled to hear the exciting news that little Alex has now arrived safe and sound. Can't wait to see more pictures.

From : Farah Mellott
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:38:49 AM


Congratulations!! Wishing you all much happiness!

From : Jessica Adams
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:33:00 AM


Andrew and Family, Congratualtions on your new arrival.

From : Carmen Bowers
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:24:55 AM


A boy!! Congrats on the new addition ... exciting times!

From : Meredith Rice
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:10:45 AM


Congratulations! He looks beautiful! Hope everyone is doing well.We are very happy for all of you!

From : The Slivinski family
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:05:51 AM


Hooorrrraaaayyyy!!! Boys are the best !!!! He is so cute !!!! and Deanna you look great in the pictures, Cant wait to see him....kinda surpised you didn't manage to fit a Dave/ David in the name is there time to change his name to Alex Andrew Ramsey

From : Doug, Debe & PJ Hemmelgarn
Posted : 2/5/2009 9:04:29 AM


Congrats! I am so happy for all of you. He is so cute!

From : Jessica Kaufman
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:55:02 AM


Congratulations! Glad to see everyone is happy and doing well! I bet you can't wait to get him home!

From : Angela and George Hagedon
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:50:46 AM


Congratulations!!!

From : John & Colleen Morelock
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:39:09 AM


Major Congratulations!!! Very nice work... :)

From : Rick Wassum
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:38:16 AM


Congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for you! I was thinking over the weekend that I needed to check in with you and get an update. ; ) Over 8 lbs! Hardly a premie! Great to hear - look forward to keeping in touch when you are home and rested (yes Deanna,

From : Rhonda Boeke
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:35:08 AM


Another blessing for your (and our) family! "He's" beautiful! We love all of you.

From : Brenda and Scott Hinkle
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:32:05 AM


Congratulations! Alexander is hanging out shirtless all the time already, just like his daddy.

From : Brian Ahlfeld
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:29:50 AM


Congratulations to you all! We are so excited to meet your little guy! And boys are awesome, you'll have so much fun with him! We look forward to meeting him soon!

From : The Bakers
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:21:01 AM


We are so thrilled to hear about little Alex!! He couldn't have asked for a more wonderful family! many prayers have been answered!!

From : Monica, Phil, Emma and Mason Meilinger
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:20:32 AM


Good work....Congratulations.

From : Kevin Holtz
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:17:44 AM


I like the top left picture, where he's flexing his muscles. As soon as there's a camera out, those Murphy boys show off their guns! Congrats!

From : Kevin M Kropf
Posted : 2/5/2009 8:04:36 AM


Congratulations! He is beautiful..love the name. All of our prayer have been answered!

From : Brenda & Marty Murphy
Posted : 2/5/2009 7:48:21 AM


Congratulations!! What a BEAUTIFUL & WONDERFUL boy for a BEAUTIFUL & WONDERFUL family!!

From : Kittie Brown
Posted : 2/5/2009 7:40:04 AM


Hooray! We are so excited for all of you! Andy - at least you are not as outnumbered in that house of ladies! What a sweet baby. Congratulations. We'll be looking to meet him at preschool soon!

From : Kelly Leone
Posted : 2/4/2009 11:28:41 PM


p.s. ...."love the name!!"

From : margie :)
Posted : 2/4/2009 11:21:30 PM


sooo excited for you guys...God bless all of ya...can't wait to see everyone!!!grandma d thanked God for her new great grandchild tonight at dinner!!!

From : lots o love...margie, jim, john & theresa...& great grandma d :)
Posted : 2/4/2009 11:18:45 PM


Sweet! Congratulations! Another Brown's fan!

From : Chris and Amy Murphy
Posted : 2/4/2009 10:48:57 PM


CONGRATULATIONS! We're so happy everybody is doing well! Alexander is adorable!!!

From : The Toledo Murphys
Posted : 2/4/2009 10:13:45 PM


Holy Cow

From : !!!!!!!!!!!
Posted : 2/4/2009 10:02:22 PM


Congratulations! Welcome, Alex! How wonderful - and how adorable! Wishing you all the best!

From : The Diak Family
Posted : 2/4/2009 9:41:25 PM


Congratulations! We love our boys over here, and I'm sure he'll be just as much fun!

From : Mike & Meredith Bolek
Posted : 2/4/2009 9:34:23 PM


Oh my Goodness!!!! He's super duper cute! We are so happy for you! We can't wait to see him! Hope you are all well! Love, Aunt Bernie, Peter, Amanda, Nick and Julia =)

From : Nick =)
Posted : 2/4/2009 9:14:05 PM


Congratulations! We are so happy for all of you. We cannot wait to meet him.

From : Karl, Rachelle & Rozsa Yakumithis
Posted : 2/4/2009 9:07:44 PM


Congratulations !! We are all very happy for you!!

From : Rory and Brenda Korzan
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:51:42 PM


congrats on your new baby boy!

From : Kristi Ord (TBC)
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:33:45 PM


Congratulations...you are truly blessed with a beautiful family. We hope all is well with Mommy and baby. We can't wait to meet the little guy!

From : Keith, Cindy, Maliah, Parker, Reagan and Braden Bricking
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:33:13 PM


I am grinning ear to ear! I am so excited for you. Congratualtions!

From : Joyce
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:32:47 PM


Congratulations to you!! We are SO happy for all of you.

From : Paaul & Theresa Ahlquist
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:29:50 PM


Congratulations, We are so glad he has arrived healthy and happy. We are bessed that all went well.

From : The Duff Family
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:23:55 PM


Congratulations! Very Handsome.

From : Andrew Herten
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:14:06 PM


Congratulations to the Murphy family!!! I bet the girls will be awesome with a little brother to coo over! I am so happy for you!!!

From : Becky Kondritz
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:12:59 PM


Congrats! You've been in my thoughts all day. Welcome to the world Alex.

From : Bethanne Brunke
Posted : 2/4/2009 8:00:18 PM


He's adorable! Congratulations to all of you!! Allie says that the girls wanted to name the baby "My Little Pony Princess"... guess you didn't go with that, huh? :)

From : The Tura Family
Posted : 2/4/2009 7:27:16 PM


WOW! Congratulations! What an exciting time for all of you. A true miracle. Enjoy every minute.

From : Afsoon & David McClellan
Posted : 2/4/2009 7:12:26 PM


Congratulations! Looking forward to meeting the new little guy! What a cutey!

From : Theresa Fultz
Posted : 2/4/2009 7:10:57 PM


I knew it -- a boy for my girl!!! Glad he is so sturdy -- he'll need to be to handle my princess!! I can't wait to meet him! I'm so happy you are well! Welcome to the world Sweet Alex!

From : Sarah/DCNanny/Oreo
Posted : 2/4/2009 7:10:25 PM


Congrats to all of you Murphy's!! Those big sisters will LOVE that baby brother! We love his name too! I can't see the picture for some reason.

From : Jeff and Michele Groleski
Posted : 2/4/2009 7:02:12 PM


OH my he is gorgeous we are sooo happy for you. Sending you lots of hugs and kisses.

From : Bernie, Peter, Amanda, Nick, Julia and Baloo
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:57:59 PM


Boys ROCK!!! We are so HAPPY FOR YOU ALL!!! Hope mommy is doing well.

From : Vicki Robinson
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:56:48 PM


He's a cutie!!! We were so glad to hear he finally arrived. Best wishes to all of you.

From : The Parin's
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:56:35 PM


A new Murphy "Peanut Baby" for us to watch in church! Hope all went well with the delivery - many blessings to you all!!! (Boys are awesome!!)

From : Kathy, Mark, Jack and Nate Kargl
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:47:26 PM


Congrats!!!!

From : Matt and Angie Kintz
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:43:21 PM


Congratulations!!!!! I'm so excited for you!

From : Teresa Pleasant
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:29:58 PM


Congratulations-we are so happy for you all!

From : Stephanie and John Wolff
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:29:36 PM


Holy cow - 5:01 PM. And 8 pds! You must be exhausted but so thrilled. I am sooo happy for you guys. Can't wait to hear all about it!

From : Sue Miyashita
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:28:08 PM


Congratulations! We are so happy for you all. What a little blessing! Keep him warm and we can't wait to see him!

From : Jane Von Dohre
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:27:08 PM


Yeah! We are thrilled for you guys. I have been praying for you on this big day.

From : Heather Collier
Posted : 2/4/2009 6:23:15 PM